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I'm Never Having Children—Why Does That Make You So Upset?


I'm Never Having Children—Why Does That Make You So Upset?

People decide not to have kids for all sorts of reasons: the economic strain, the environmental impact, the shit world we're living in, or a ...

I don't want kids, but I want to be allowed to be sad about it. - Reddit

But it still makes me sad sometimes. I feel like i can't admit that to anyone though, because they'll take it as “see?! You do want kids!” But ...

The Psychology of Feeling Sad About Not Having Children

I never had children and that has never been an issue for me. I know, however, that other people feel pained about not having kids.

Why do people get mad when I say I do not want kids? - Quora

Because the assumption is that you must be very selfish. You don't want to raise children! You don't want to leave your legacy! How dare you not ...

Involuntary Childlessness and Depression - Is it Time to Talk?

This is a leading cause of depression. Not having children might make you feel faulty, as if you weren't 'good enough' to find the right ...

How I found joy in life without children of my own - The Guardian

And another rightly suggests that the positivity I have started to feel is due in part to seeing how tough being a parent can be, which I ...

I help people decide if they want to have kids. Here's my advice. - Vox

“I'm afraid of losing my identity, freedom, and comfort if I have children. Afraid of regretting it if I don't.” “I've always wanted to have a ...

HATE myself for being so angry with my 2.5 year old. - Netmums

I'm so upset and angry with myself because I never thought that I could be like this. I don't want to be like my dad. I love my child so so much ...

Deeply sad I will not have a daughter. - PriceScope

My feelings have nothing to do with the kids I do have, but everything to do with a feeling of loss about all the experiences I am unlikely to ...

I'm upset I can't have more children | Mumsnet

... can't help but feel upset about the fact I'll never have another child. I'm in a same sex marriage. My wife carried our 1st, we adopted our ...

NYT: The Unspoken Grief of Never Becoming a Grandparent

I grew up surrounded by people who all wanted to have kids. It was great personal tragedy when couples could not have children and often ...

Maybe I Shouldn't Have Had Kids: Hope & Resentment - The Mom Edit

I never considered it until it was way too late. At around 28, neck deep in three children, I realized I should have never had kids. I was just ...

Why are we so upset when other people don't have kids? - WHAS11

The study suggests that having kids is seen as a moral imperative, and failing to fulfill expected roles justifies backlash. So: “If you don't ...

To be sad about never having grandkids - Mumsnet

Please don't make your children feel guilty, or speak to them about how sad you are. I'm an adult child who chose not to have children, and ...

How To Figure Out If You Really Want Kids - ELLE

There are so many reasons why women might be choosing to delay motherhood – job stability, levels of education and income, medical advancements ...

Why Not Having Kids Makes Some People Crazy - Time

But an intriguing new study from the Netherlands suggests that not having children only makes infertile women unhappy if they are unable to let ...

Why So Many People Are Going “No Contact” with Their Parents

” Instead, as Amy tells it, one of her younger brothers became upset, and quoted Bible verses to make the opposite argument. Her mother sent her ...

Will I Regret Not Having Kids? - Verywell Mind

The best thing you can do is to evaluate your feelings, consider the pros and cons, and make the decision that works best for you and your life.

Taming Tempers (for Parents) | Nemours KidsHealth

Of course you feel angry, but what counts is how you handle that. Reacting to kids' meltdowns with yelling and outbursts of your own will only teach them to do ...

Why are more women saying no to having kids?, with Peggy O ...

Heffington writes about the historic trends of non-motherhood as well as the modern factors that are playing a role in women's choices to not ...